this is more preferable in my view, and I do not like that (أَحَبْ إِلَيَّ كَذَا وَلَا أُحِبْ كَذَا)
أصول الفقه
التعريف :
This is a term used by Imam Ahmad. Most scholars of his school consider it to express desirability, while the negated part expresses reprehensibility.